Occasionally the man in your life will want something that he doesn’t articulate, he doesn’t share and it’s either because he doesn’t know how to ask for the thing, or he’s too embarrassed to ask for that thing. Either way, when that goes unsaid you have no idea what he may desire in the relationship. So today I’m gonna share with you four things that men want, but don’t ask for.
4 Things Your Boyfriend Want But Don’t Ask For
Here are 4 things that you can apply to your relationship, hope you find them useful.
He Wants You To Take Interest In His Interests.
Men love it when they become passionate about what he’s passionate about. So whether that’s a favorite sports team or whether that’s a hobby that he loves, like RC planes or racing, or whether that’s a job that he’s passionate about. When you start to show interest in those things, it builds a bond and a connection between the two of you. For example, if your boy loves anime and fitness, you can surprise him with anime gym shorts, and go work out with him, he must appreciate that.
He Wants You To Initiate The Sex
Go ahead and be bold, surprise him. Come out of the bathroom in that, some sexy lingerie, maybe that outfit you haven’t put on in a while. He wants you to be the one initiating sex unless however, you are the sex machine.
He Wants Your Confidence In Him
This is very difficult to ask for, but it’s obvious when he doesn’t get it. It’s also very easy to show your confidence in him and here’s how it works. Confidence in him is as simple as giving him a task and then letting him complete the task for you, but often times what will happen is there will be the type of woman who says, hey, would you take me on a date? Would you drive me and let’s go to this restaurant? And then while they’re driving there she’s telling him the best way to go and she’s instructing him on where to park. Or she says, “hey honey, will you wash the dishes?” And as he’s washing the dishes and putting them in the dishwasher, she’s correcting him and saying no, the glass goes here and put the dish in that way and she’s micromanaging the situation. When that happens he feels like you don’t trust him. But, allowing him to accomplish the task, and actually sitting back and letting him serve you shows that you have faith in his abilities. And showing faith in his abilities is showing faith in the man himself.
Your Man Has A Deep Desire For Respect
Respect shows up in the little things. It shows up in the way we listen to one another. It shows up in the way we show up on time and keeps an agreement for when we’re gonna meet one another. It shows up in the way we honor each other’s differences, and make it okay that we don’t have to like the same things or have the same opinions all the time. And, it shows up in how we are courteous to one another in saying please and thank you for things. I remember I was blown away, one of the things that just absolutely blew my mind about my wife when we were dating was how respectful she was, and how she never let the little things get by her without showing appreciation. And even after we got married, we would go out to dinner, our bank accounts are combined, she’s contributing to the money, I’m contributing to the money. We go out to dinner, I get the bill, I pull out, I pay for dinner, and at the end of dinner, she says, thank you for dinner, honey and she gives me a big kiss. It shows appreciation and it makes, it a big deal and it goes a long way.
Here are things that men want, but don’t ask for. If you know this, you can build a stronger connection with your man. Hope you can expand the love in your life and create that amazing relationship that you love.